Good Evening. Take a Seat. - so i used to be with this guy-it was easy, talked every day but not all the time and talked on the phone a lot. when i started falling i got scared and we tried to be friends he dated someone else.didnt tell me about it and maneuvered around the subject when i tried to get him to admit it. it hurt. they broke up. we started talking again, i helped him through some shit, we started flirting again and we hooked up last night. how do i get over the betrayed feeling and not worry, and just trust him

Feb 27 2012
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“so i used to be with this guy-it was easy, talked every day but not all the time and talked on the phone a lot. when i started falling i got scared and we tried to be friends he dated someone else.didnt tell me about it and maneuvered around the subject when i tried to get him to admit it. it hurt. they broke up. we started talking again, i helped him through some shit, we started flirting again and we hooked up last night. how do i get over the betrayed feeling and not worry, and just trust him”

-Anonymous

honestly, from what you told me. I don’t feel like there would be any trust. it sounds like what he wants is someone to be close to. Just keep talking to him and try not to hook up anymore. Regain the trust that was there before, and then continue on in your relationship.

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